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    • CommentTimeSep 29th 2011

    Sorry if I made you feel like you had to jump to his defense! I was trying to lightly comment, and I fear my verbosity made my comment more judgmental than I had intended. The last thing I want is for people to feel like they can't say what they want here because some asshole (me) will give some unwarranted comment. My point was that while he may have been attempting honesty, if your honesty's only purpose is to tear something down, it's better to focus on the circumstances rather than the principles. There's still honesty there: being happy because someone else is happy. Better honesty.

    That being said, it's your business and taking issue with his position when the only things I'm going to know about it are from your (rightful) expository posts. You shouldn't have to explain his position to us further than you like to. If the two of you work it out, great! I don't want to tell you why you should or should not be mad.

    How's about this: Feel awesome because you like the way you looked, and feel awesome because yer dude thinks you do even when you don't think you do (bad syntax for clarity :P).
    • CommentTimeSep 29th 2011
    @Britt yeah, there's nothing I can add that Allana and Dork haven't said already. Makeup IS a change of pace and quite useful in bringing out features that you already have. And hell, if it makes yourself feel better about yourself than who gives a fuck about what anyone else thinks, you're fiance included. And speaking of him, that's a really douchebag thing to say. I recognize that to you his opinion matters, but he must also recognize that you're feeling down in the dumps and want to improve that. You've been telling us here that he's depressed as well so he should understand that. If he sees makeup as a lie, well...that's his opinion and his alone. And if doing it makes you feel better, hell, if wearing a bear suit around the house makes you feel better, do it.
    • CommentTimeSep 30th 2011
    Trying to navigate the wanderlust thing with the not-wanting-to-succumb-to-a-cliched-mid-life-crisis thing.

    There is a world and I am in it. I've only got maybe 40 more years to move about. It doesn't sound like a whole hell of a lot of time.
      CommentAuthorAlan Tyson
    • CommentTimeSep 30th 2011 edited
    I'm getting very, very sick of having the same phone conversation over and over again.
    • CommentAuthorflecky
    • CommentTimeSep 30th 2011
    Hey..good day to you all.

    @everyone: I can't thank you enough for just being genuine,honest and sincere. I was listening to a piece of music by Eno a few hours back which always opens the floodgates of tears and i was sobbing reading your posts.Good stuff for me as i need to whinge and cry to relieve the torment i am going through with my detox.

    I had to compose a care plan with my keyworker at the treatment centre i go to in North End Road in Fulham,London Toon.I actually included Whitechapel in it.He looked at me,smiling,as he had no idea what the fook i was going on about.Reckon the fooka needs a good dose of Uncle Warrens mental fiction.

    @oddbill: Being a 47 year old degenerate pervert who falls in love every ten minutes really takes it out o me. If i see a woman without a hat on i have to fight the urge to run to the nearest toilet to knock one Roger(?) said in Dawn of The Dead "I don't want to be walking around like..THAT!"

    @taphead: me feel for you as i love animals.I'm sure wee Sintti is playing around,dancing merrily at a cool cat rave on the edge of time..

    Got to split as i have some NA related dodgy shit to sort out..sigh..

    Flame on motherfookaZ!!
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    • CommentAuthorroadscum
    • CommentTimeSep 30th 2011
    @ Sonny: I feel your pain!

    The last couple of days have been insanely hot and sunny and i have been stuck in a big tin box on wheels delivering pallets of dildos to pervy tat shops. I am baked, i am boiled and i have had about ten hours sleep in the last two days, which is not enough. I don't care how nice the weather is tomorrow, i'm sleeping till lunchtime. Fine though it is, i am sure this weather is a harbinger of the end of the world, we are DOOMED! (eventually). Hopefully i have enough time to tell you about the armoured cars but not tonight, i need sleep!

    I am far too tired to think straight, take care Whitechapel, you are a good bunch.