Bob, I am so, so sorry you and your wife have to go through this. Jesus. You take care of each other as best you can, but if you need any more support and love, we're ALL here for you. Every single goddamn ookie one of us.
@Bob - Damn, that's heartbreaking news and I'm so very sorry for you both, it's a horrible thing to have to go through. Very best wishes and hugs to you and Sigga.
@Bob - hold fast man. Don't let it break you. Let it out, cry, smash things if you've got to - just don't let it colour your world. Remember who you are and who you will be.
Jesus, man. My wife and I lost our first child too. I know you're going to be there for Sigga but make sure you take some time to grieve for yourself too.
Goddamn. what a fucking kick in the face. Big mondo spirit hugs from the Weirdo Out West. I'll be thinking of you & sigga. I know you've been trying for a while and we've been cheering you on because there's no doubt you two could make awesome parents. remember we believe in you. PLease take the time for the grief but let it own you. You're too bloody brilliant. *hug*
thanks so much for your words. They really do mean so much. Sigga is feeling a bit better today. She has been plied with chocolate, Desperate Housewives and The Good Wife and lots of cushions. She's admitted that she has cried a few times today while i was out at work but she's holding together well. We´ll get over this and still produce the heir to my fortune! It's just going to take a little time that's all.
It's a cold comfort but many first pregnancies end this way. In my close group of friends there were three or four miscarriages among the lot of us and every couple affected that way went on to have kids. Take care of yourselves.
@Bob, it sounds like you're doing everything right. Keep on keepin' on, and make sure to take care of yourselves in the meantime. Thanks for the update!! I was definitely thinking about you all for the past couple of days.