Vanilla is a product of Lussumo:
Documentation and Support.
Until she offers to open shows for you for free...
However, when I learned that she paid (and budgeted?) for strings and horns in high profile locations (New York for example) that made me feel like the whole thing is not in fact the circle of love she’d like to present it as.
The fans going to see her in a high profile location get to see a tight, well crafted musical performance while fans in less high profile locations get an “experience” (good or bad).
“we’re looking for professional-ish horns and strings for EVERY CITY to hop up on stage with us for a couple of tunes … you need to know how to ACTUALLY, REALLY PLAY YOUR INSTRUMENT! lessons in fifth grade do not count, so please include in your email some proof of that (a link to you playing on a real stage would be great, or a resume will do. just don’t LIE…you’ll be embarrassed if you show up for rehearsal and everyone’s looking at you wondering why you can’t actually play the trombone.)”
Gaiman has fucktons of money. He probably knows how to manage it. Ms. Palmer, who has DEFINITELY proven herself after this fiasco to be somewhat shoddy at handling cash moneys, could have asked for his help in managing funds. Or he could have offered advice. Or WHATEVER. Couples talk about things when they're couples.