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When an MTV viewer wanted to know what Democratic presidential nominee Barack Obama thought of Proposition 8, a state constitutional amendment on the 2008 California general-election ballot that would eliminate the right of same-sex couples to marry, MTV News brought the question straight to the man himself.
"I think it's unnecessary," Obama told Sway, in response to a question sent in by Gangstagigz from San Leandro, California. "I believe marriage is between a man and a woman. I am not in favor of gay marriage. But when you start playing around with constitutions, just to prohibit somebody who cares about another person, it just seems to me that's not what America's about. Usually, our constitutions expand liberties, they don't contract them."
If he said "yes" and "gay" on the same sentence, he would be painted as the anti-Christ, considering how much he must "hold back" I think he's very for-gay-marriage in reality.
Obama's an eloquent man, if you don't think he could articulate how gay marriage isn't about annhilating people's churches or destroying "the family unit" he's not half the orator he seems.He couldn't and still maintain the nice numbers he's pulling. I know plenty of black Baptist Obama supporters that would immediately decide to take back their vote if they knew Obama was going to push enacting gay rights legislation, and even more white Catholic Democrats that would do the same. I also know Obama benefits from siphoning off a number of Republican voters, who could largely be holding their noses enough this election to abide disagreeing with portions of Obama's platform, but who knows, maybe gay rights is the straw that breaks the camel's back with them, and they turn. Even worse, coming out with a strong show of support for the GLBT community just adds fodder for the Republican camp, who'll find it that much easier to mobilize their base and rile up the bigots to get out and vote. The enthusiasm advantage Democrats are enjoying would definitely weaken.
Accepting that as settled fact just makes matters worse.Oh by all means, carry on, I'm not trying to say there's no point to the fight right now or anything. I'm entirely with you on everything you've said, I'm just saying why Obama's big flaw here isn't going to give me a second's hesitation in supporting him. We still need people constantly pushing for more and better, always everywhere. But I'm also looking at getting a president-elect who's going to do a damn fine job in a whole lot of other areas. I feel secure in assuming this is the best of all realistically possible scenarios right now. That's more than enough for me, after repeatedly seeing pretty much the worst of all realistically possible scenarios play out over the course of damn near a decade. And in all honesty, I really do expect him to address exactly the issues you want him to. (Mayyyybe not until he secures his second term...)