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For example, "We need to remove your appendix: abdominal surgery. Would you like us to do that while you're concious? Or would you prefer General Anasthetic, so that you remember nothing?"
I'm astonished at the moral complexity presented in the last few episodes. I love that Sirkka's actions aren't accepted by some of the other characters. Fantastic writing.
In the case of the rape camp survivor - she was offered the choice and chose to forget.I definitely didn't read it that way. It seemed like Jack described Sirkka pretty much taking the initiative and doing what we saw her do with Luke's victim.
If people *could* read my mind: would it be fair of me to tell them that they shouldn't: that they should instead surpress their ability? Even if their reading my mind doesn't hurt me? Wouldn't that be like saying to somebody, "Stop looking at me!"? I mean, if they're able to look, if they can see, they're allowed to. You are allowed, even expected, to read people's emotions in their face ... it's only a very minor leap, then, to read their emotions in their brain; and if I am thinking things that I don't want people to know about, that's *my* problem, not theirs.To me, that seems to ignore the simple truth that there are secrets/thoughts/feelings/what-have-you that all of us want to keep private, which we have a right to, and a natural expectation that we can have these thoughts and feelings without worrying about someone picking up on it. The 'Angels can read minds, just like a person can use their eyes to see, but I think it's just as reasonable to expect people to not go peaking into a person's brain without permission as it is to expect people not go peaking into a person's windows without permission. Technically, it can be possible for a peeping tom to have not done much harm getting his jollies off sneaking a peak, but it's still a gross invasion of privacy that (most) people would really rather do without.
Oh, and btw, I don't think the memories of rape should have been erased - people are who they are because of experiences they have come through - to take that away is to take away what they have crafted themselves as.The pertinent fact here would be that the rape victim didn't choose that experience, becoming a victim of rape is clearly not "what they have crafted themselves as" but rather something forced on them. And it's undeniable that some experiences just plain break people, experiences without which people could have had a far better chance at being functional and healthy and happy human beings.
It may not seem fair to you that someone else can see your thoughts ... but your telling them what to think and what not to think, what to see and what to avert their sight from, would be you trying to control *their* thoughts.Bit of a leap there, no? It's nothing at all to do with controlling anyone's thoughts, and all to do with actions. It's about telling people not to look, and reasonably expecting them to respect privacy. If a girl wearing a skirt complains at me trying to get a gander up it, I'm not going to tell her that she's trying to unfairly control my experience of her. That's how it works. Just because you CAN peak, whether it's up a skirt or into a mind, doesn't mean you should have perfect freedom to. And anyway, of course you don't have perfect freedom to. Peeping toms get arrested for a reason. Society constantly tells people what to see and what to avert their sight from. And rightfully so, quite often.